This might sound like an odd question to ask, but what it illustrates is how varied these implements can be, and how we all have different requirements and sometimes only the right tool will do.
With that in mind, we’ve been spending a lot of time trying to work on some new impact toys that help to meet these needs, and where possible, expand on them. One thing we’ve found, is that for all you masochists and sadists out there, some of our toys might not have ‘hit the mark’ as effectively as you might have liked. Enter our new range of studded paddles.
These impact toys are however not for the faint hearted and this is one of the rare cases we’d advise beginners to perhaps think long and hard before using one of these and even suggest the more experienced take their time and start slow. The spiked paddles in particular can and will do real damage – these toys are not toys so to speak. However, if pain is the game, you aren’t afraid of a little blood and like marks, these will fit the bill perfectly.
Also, don’t forget that these paddles aren’t just made to inflict damage. On the contrary, if used carefully they can be a sensual addition to any toy box – whether that’s a gentle touch, a scratch or indeed abrasive play. Be it using them by slowly dragging the spikes over your sub’s back or backside, or using them as an incentive for someone who has been partially suspended not to put their heels on the ground 😉. These paddles can be very versatile. Our studded paddles aren’t quite as brutal as our spikes ones but will still leave heavy marks and be very painful too – in-case you were worrying we’d gone soft.
This is also great for mental play as this this will strike the fear of god into someone. This is a big, heavy duty paddle, and don’t forget you don’t have to use the spikey side, just using the standard non-spiked/studded side will
To check out our range of studded paddles, please click here. Also, as ever, if you have any questions or a bespoke request, feel free to contact us.
It’s fair to say there has been something of a revolution in recent years when it comes to the ‘strap-on’. It feels like we have moved on a long way from the days where they were reserved for pro-Domme’s and high paying customers. Perception of the activity has even moved into mainstream media – who can forget Ryan Reynolds enjoying a bit of fun with Morena Baccarin on International Women’s Day in Deadpool?
Given the enjoyment to be had, and new-found curiosity you might have, that leads us on to one big question: How do you even buy a strap-on? Now this, is a very good question, and a lot of people might do some quick google searches and then be a bit scared off, the choice can be a bit overwhelming. The key, is to go for simplicity.
There are two fundamental requirements, the strap-on harness, and the dildo you want to use. When it comes to the harness, we’d suggest avoiding straps that don’t use thick proper strap to hold it in the place. When you are pegging your partner, you don’t want the harness to either break or cut into your skin – which it might be if it’s too thin. We honestly believe that well-made leather harnesses will give the user a much better experience, with more control and less likelihood of a malfunction that might have painful repercussions for the person being pegged.
As you might expect, we decided to tackle this problem head on by creating our range of four strap-on harnesses. Our ‘Fully adjustable leather strap on harness’, two ‘two size ring design Adam strap on harness’ (one part of our Commando and the other part of our Pharaoh lines) and finally our ‘Maxi design leather strap on’. Any of the harnesses are great for experienced users and the uninitiated, however, we’d suggest the ‘Maxi design leather strap on’ for users that want a lot of control, and our two ring Adam strap on designs for those who expect they’ll want to use many different sized dildos. However, regardless of which you choose, you can specify the sizes, and colours, so it’s just right for your needs. All of our harnesses also use heavy duty welded rings to use to attach your dildo of choice, giving you flexibility to use one you feel most comfortable with.
That brings us nicely on to dildos. Although we don’t sell any -yet, we thought it worth giving a few words of advice. First off, if you are inexperienced, work with the person who is going to be pegged when choosing the first dildo you want to use. There are a plethora to choose from, so you will want to focus on those that are flexible (jelly type dildos) and relatively thin. Also, make sure you buy dildos that are designed to be used in a strap-on harness as otherwise, they won’t have the required flared base to enable you to use it in your harness. Also, don’t forget your lube. Lube is vitally important as it will make it more comfortable for the person being pegged – and is dangerous without. Brand worth trying include Liquid Silk and Pjur silicone lube (though if using Pjur make sure your dildo is silicone lube safe)
Follow these steps, and you’ll be having fun in no time at all! If you have any questions about our strap-on harnesses or any of our other products feel free to contact us!
A short writing about the definition of the term Únicorn’ used in the BDSM/Fetish lifestyle, and about how it seems to be very popular in the Vanilla communities at present, being very fashionable, a trend? and the colours associated with the modern version of Unicorns.
There’s actually very little written online about the association of Unicorns to BDSM, but i managed to find two fairly good descriptive ones to share that I’ve credited, and tons of colourful and bright images on google including a very early history image drawn by famous artist Leonardo Da Vinci of a Unicorn that i found particularly interesting being an art enthusiast!
Leonardo Da Vinci ‘Lady with unicorn (Young woman seated in a landscape with unicorn) Late 1470’s, Brown pen and ink on paper – credit commons.wikemedia.com
Definition 1 of Unicorn related to the BDSM Lifestyle as follows;
There’s a term nearly everybody in the Swinger world, the BDSM world, and the Polyamorous world is familiar with, summarized in one neat, pretty, sparkly mental image of one word: Unicorn. On the surface it’s a simple term, relating to the mythical creature of lore that is rumored to exist but is nearly impossible to find. Furthermore, once found, it’s nearly impossible to keep, for after all, nobody can really own a unicorn. (credit absinthepassion.wordpress.com )
Colloquial; Synonym for hot or Bi babe or HBB, often derogatory, condescending, or ironic. A bisexual person usually though not always female, who is willing to join an existing couple, often with the presumption that this person will date and become sexually involved with both members of that couple, and not demand anything or do anything which might cause problems or inconvenience to that couple.
The term is often used to be dismissive of a couple seen to be only superficially polyamorous. Because of the demands that this type of couple places on the woman (that she be single and not take on any additional partners, and become involved with both members of the couple equally, and often “complete” their family as a surrogate mother and housekeeper and/or breadwinner and not do anything that may threaten or disrupt the existing couple), many in the poly community call this type of woman a ‘Unicorn’, as in mythical and not likely to be found, even though there are plenty of bipoly women around.
Sometimes the unicorn is expected to not develop any emotional attachment and is strictly there for a sexual relationship (equally distributed to both members of the dyad) and/or is prescripted as a secondary. This term is used as a reminder that bipoly women are people with their own desires, needs, and pre-existing lives, and not fantasy figures or pets. (credit Urban dictionary.com).
Images and new modern definitions of Unicorns have certainly changed over the course of history from the age old pure white thoroughbred looking specimen of a horse (mostly Mares, female gendered I noticed after looking online at images) with the white flowing mane and central horn on the head often with a bright light seen shining around the profile, to the much more colourful versions of today with the white earlier version being softened and caricatured, with the added colours of the LBGT/Pride Rainbow symbolism added to the mouth or posterior of the Unicorns, along with shiny metallic shades and bright shining stars.
But what has made them so hugely fashionable recently it seems in both the BDSM and Vanilla communities? because everywhere you go these days there’s clear evidence of modern day Unicorns all around us, at BDSM fetish events, markets, and online fetish social media communities, on the local high streets and shopping centres in makeup departments selling rainbow coloured hair chalk, stationery shops advertising ‘Back to school’ Unicorn logo’d products, and Unicorns can even be found lining much rack space in our favorite Primark stores, with PJ’s and bath robes, pants and all things colourful and glittery.
So why are Unicorns so popular right now in both BDSM and Vanilla communities? anyone know? and is there a connection to the two different lifestyles? If you have any answers that might be useful, we’d appreciate any comments to share with those of us asking the very same questions about Unicorns.
Anyway, still on the very popular global subject of Unicorns, many of our customers have requested that we create some Unicorn coloured leather products, which at first seemed quite the challenge to us, that was until a leather supply shopping trip had us finding the perfect exotic metallic colourful Holographic leather skin that could be used, along with a selection of rainbow coloured leathers we had wanted to purchase to make a lovely Pride flogger;
From left to right Unicorn Flogger, Locking Collar with padlock and keys, Binky and holder clip strap, and the Pride 3mm wide flogger.
They can be found on our Website under our new category of Únicorn Designer’ which we shall be adding more products to shortly like our leather Unicorn Restraint cuffs and leash to match the collars.
Phew! So much to catch up on, here goes…
The team at Subspaceleathers have been very busy this summer, creating many new designed products from our Unicorn Holographic leather collars to our Fab and feisty Brat paddle, on top of that we’ve also moved our Website/Online store over to a far better customer and user friendly platform giving it a totally new redesign, with many more categories and products to browse through.
In July SubSpaceleathers finally managed to find the time to go for their annual Christmas meal, a bit of a running joke now with us, but after a mega busy November and December that rolled into 2017 quickly, and two cancelled scheduled dates for the meal due to illness, we went for an amazing seafood meal in West Mersea ‘The Company Shed’ highly recommended btw, and had a great afternoon in the sun after a delicious meal.
Our whole Restraint Collar section has had a major overhaul, with loads of new fantastic designed collars from our Spiked PVC Vegan Friendly options, to Unicorn, Branded and various 23mm wide leather strap versions now available on the website and at our traders stand for events.
A wide and growing range of our popular selling leather, suede, hair on hide and exotic leathers and hard wood handled Floggers have now been added to the website for our online customers, and a bigger range is now also available via our traders stand for London Alternative Market and other events we attend. Our 3mm wide falls floggers are proving a huge success with many colour variations and luxury leathers available to those that require something a little extra special from a standard flogger on the market.Some of the selection of hard wood and exotic wood handles on our floggers are Purple Heart, Macore West African Cherry wood, Zebrano, American Black Walnut, Sepele and Utile hardwoods which add a little extra luxury to some of our floggers.
And of course we have introduced many re-tweaked or brand new design products to the online store and our stock for trader events. Some examples as follows;
Now stocked on our website Limited Edition Belts, Prince and Princess Silver calf leather lined restraint cuffs, Limited Edition Special Pride Pacigags (Sold out) and our Unicorn 3mm Floggers
Single and double locking penis gags, Dungeon Italain Black leather cuffs, Nine Spike Design Dungeon Paddles, and Unicorn Binky Holder strap and Large Pacifier.
New Design double thigh strap pegging harness, Mantis Design multifunction belt/restraint, Triple gauntlet cuffs, and many textured paddles, a new modular play session belt, and lots of Luxury collars.
If that wasn’t enough to keep us busy, we also added a new Clearance section to the website and created many massively reduced one off items or sets for both BDSM and ABDL Fetish;
Like some of these below;
So this is just a few of our Summer updates to let you all know what we have been doing and working on to bring you all a more comprehensive selection of products from SubSpaceLeathers.
Did you know that SubspaceLeathers now sell a growing range of Cosplay and LARPING Items on the Website?
Cosplay -(Costume Play) and LARPING – (Live Action Roleplay)
It all started with an unusual but challenging bespoke request usually outside of our remit of leather BDSM and fetish toys and implements many months ago. The request being from a lovely young lady who wanted us to create a costume for her in black and silver leather, a one off and unique ensemble to wear for a special vanilla type occasion that she was attending, but also to used thereafter for possible BDSM/Fetish events, giving her dual usage.
Normally we would have politely declined such a request and suggested that she maybe seek someone in the field of leather couture, which is a totally different area of leather crafting expertise to our own. Nevertheless the team here at SubspaceLeathers mulled over the lady’s inquiry which just so happened to coincide with a visit to a couple of our leather suppliers in London, one of whom just so happens to be very established in supplying the UK and international film and television industries, which helped with sourcing potential leathers for her project.
The bespoke request was that she had her own black leather waistcoat which she wanted to be decorated to match and incorporated into the completed costume if at all possible, along with a simple short wrap around type skirt, matching small bag that could be worn on it’s own with a long strap, or clipped onto the skirt, and a collar/choker. So it seemed quite a tall order for us to fulfill, that was until we came across a very unusual but specific type of textured Black and silver skived effect goat skin (image 1 below) at one of the suppliers. Being experienced leathercrafters and having some very creative people on the team, part of the job entails having to be tactile with the type of products that we produce, so with the request in mind, and searching for possible materials to be able to contemplate creating a special ensemble for the young lady this piece of leather seemed almost destined to be used.
The exterior texture and colours were perfect, the weight of the leather was right for it’s use, and how the skived silver surface hung and flowed when hung vertical and moved around was just what we were looking for to make the skirt part of the costume. Having estimated the correct size of the leather skin required to cover the various pieces of the outfit that we needed, we realised that paired with the black Italian leather that we always use for strapping and the hardware that we already have stocked in the workshop, we knew that we could now make most of the bespoke order. The only challenge that we had left was that there wouldn’t be enough skived silver goatskin leather to incorporate into the bag part of the set request, until Mike vaguely remembered that we had an end part of an exotic single black and silver ostrich foot leather skin (Piece shown on the smaller strap on image 2) left in the workshop that would possibly match nicely to the rest of the set.
Having bought the silver skived goatskin leather piece along with our other stocks of leathers, when we arrived home, unpacked and stored the hides in the workshop, the search then began to find the last remaining piece of the puzzle to solve the bespoke challenge, and although elusive at first it was like a eureka moment when we found it, and it was shown to be an excellent match to go with the goatskin.
Excitedly and with much pleasure we were then able to happily communicate to the young lady telling her that yes indeed we would be able to make her a costume using the leathers that we’d managed to source for it, and discussed at length the design ideas with her to make sure it was what she desired from the end costume.
A little nervous at our first attempt to compose a custom unique costume to wear in silver and black leather, and with the added pressure of making sure that we didn’t damage the ladies leather waistcoat that she’d sent us, we embarked upon a new creation outside of our realms of crafting.
The set was finished, then packaged and shipped to the lady who’d made the bespoke order with us, and nervously we waited for a response……..
There was nothing for us to be nervous of, the lady sent us a glowing , excited and heartfelt response very quickly thanking us for making such a beautiful outfit.
Bespoke Costume Set image above
We have received many requests over the last year from Cosplayers, LARP enthusiasts, and people involved in Viking and other period type live re-enactment that often overlap into the the Fetish communities, who seek good quality real leather and fur one off specialised creations. So as a result of the earlier silver and black leather bespoke order and the confidence it gave us in fulfilling the request, we are now tentatively branching out into more specific and random unique leather/fur and suede Cosplay and Larping products.
These are just a few of the Cosplay/Larping Items we now have on the Website;
If you have a Bespoke request, then please contact us directly and we’d be more than happy to help!
Some things to consider when purchasing
Design, Colour, Material, Functionality, Hardware, Lining, Quality, Price or Pair V’s Set…
Firstly you need to consider what your going to use them for, be that simply restraining a person to a bed for some light bedroom play, or whether you’ll need them to hold up to heavy play sessions in a dungeon, event or playspace. Because that could make the difference in the quality of cuffs that you purchase. Or if you want to be able to use them on multiple sized persons because the sizing or colour will make a difference.
So with that in mind you need to think of materials and quality of fittings. If your looking for genuine leather then we suggest that you smell the cuff for that unmistakable leather aroma, and if you can see the back of the leather edge then you should be able to tell whether it’s real leather or faux leather with the combined smell quite easily. There is a lot of faux leather restraint cuffs and other items out there which probably wont withstand heavy play sessions over time, they’ll look good but wont perform well. Leather is a natural and clever animal fibrous substance used for many centuries for all manner of hard working everyday jobs, designed to give slightly, but not break when stress is exerted against it, unlike the makeup of faux leather which given enough pressure will simply snap or break and could lead to injury of the wearer.
Take time to ask about or inspect the metal fittings, ask what they’re made from, which again can make a difference for the usage, a thin non welded dee ring is likely to open up with any weight exerted upon it versus a thicker four or five millimeter welded dee which would withstand a far greater force. The wearer may have a metal allergy that you need to be aware of and whether metal will sit against the skin.
Do you want locking buckles versus regular double or single roller buckles? Because a seasoned player may know all the tricks to be able to escape from a regular type buckled cuff, so a locking type will be a better choice.
Think about what the cuff is lined with too, does the wearer have thin boney wrists? Well a Fur lined variety would probably fit better and be more comfortable. Does the wearer have any metal allergies? Then you need to check that no metal parts including rivets will touch the wearer’s skin. Another thing to consider is that if the cuff is leather or faux leather lined will it slip around when being used, will you be able to get a tight enough grip once fastened enough to not cause friction on the wrist or ankle. Always be mindful of anyone your purchasing restraint cuffs for that they haven’t got an old or recent wrist or ankle injury that might be aggravated with wearing cuffs in play. Maybe consider upper arm restraints rather than wrists cuffs if the person has had a broken wrist in the past and they want to protect the wrist in play.
Design of the restraint cuff is important too, do you want one for multiple bondage uses like one of ours where the strap is removeable from the cuff so the other strap can be threaded cross ways to form a pair of cross cuffs? Or do you need a pair to be used for suspension mostly, because you’ll need a specialised pair for that purpose as not all regular cuffs will be comfortable to wear from that position.
The cuffs you want to purchase are they to fit multiple persons you play with or just one person? Because the sizing will make a huge difference if they need to fit from a petite wrist up to a large or extra large wrist. Personally we wouldn’t advise trying to find a cuff to fit the range from an extra small right up to an extra large as you’ll struggle to get a good fit for anyone on the spectrum of sizing.
Once you’ve considered all of the above, then you need to think about the ease of use during a play situation, is it the first time the person who is wearing them has worn restraint cuffs in play? If so then you might want to think about purchasing a velcro fasten design cuff that you can release the person from very quickly if the person becomes distressed or anxious. If your buying a pair for a seasoned player then you might want to consider a double or triple buckle fasten gauntlet pair, or ones with locking buckles! Inspect the cuffs, thread the strap through the buckle to see how easily and quickly it will fasten or not, but bare in mind that new leather in cuffs is a little stiffer before use like breaking in a pair of new boots.
Colour? The standard BDSM colour preference seems to be all black, and a combination of black and red, but we’ve found that many of our customers prefer a wider range of colour choices specifically tones of purple, browns and pastel shades and more unusual colours and print or embossed designs of leather. This is a personal preference that a good stockist of restraint cuffs will be able to offer you and could make the difference in your purchase if you want something artisan bespoke made.
Purchasing a Set of cuffs (Wrist, Ankle, Upper Arms, Thighs set) versus a Pair of wrist cuffs? Be aware of when purchasing a pair of restraint cuffs for wrists as an example that you may want to add to them by getting a pair of ankle or thigh cuffs at a later date when your play partner is more experienced in restraint play. So will you be able to get the same match? Ask the supplier this if only purchasing a pair, or maybe you could contemplate buying a set of four (Wrist/Ankles) six (Wrist/ankle, upper arms) or eight set (Wrist, ankle, upper arms, thighs) to match. Also ask if you wanted to add other items like straps etc to your play kit in future could the seller make them to match if needed.
Another thing to maybe ask the trader when buying cuffs is if double ended trigger hooks come with each pair purchased and included in the advertised price.
Our best advise when looking to purchase restraint cuffs is to speak with, message or email the supplier and ask some of these questions, or seek advice from them on which ones would best suit your needs if searching online. If you can get to a traders market, Fair or event where they might be trading at, then touch, feel inspect and try on various types of cuffs and ask questions about them.
SubSpaceLeathers are more than happy to advise on, or answer any of your questions regarding purchasing restraint cuffs or other items including bespoke orders.
Hi Everyone, we’ve got some great news to share with you all!
You may have noticed that over the last few months we’ve had a bit of back and forth with our website, but we’re glad to say that our digital journey has come to an end and we are now at our new online home.
The good news is, that we’ve also got a new online shop! This means that we’ll be able to offer you some exclusive discounts and offers in the future – though you can continue to shop on Etsy, ABDL marketplace, ABDL Zone and in person at The London Alternative Market as well – it’s your choice!
Alongside the launch of our new site, we’ve also got some great new products. One of the ones we’d love to tell you about is our themed mystery boxes. Whether you’re into ABDL or want some new bondage gear, you can choose to purchase boxes that cost from £30 – £150 which will contain a or a number of mystery items – which are worth more than the cost of the box! It’s a great way for those finding it hard to choose from our vast selection of products or those who just like a good surprise!
The team at SubSpace Leathers
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